Thursday, February 14, 2008

Pearl of wisdom from a little girl

Last weekend, while I'd been to my gym to get in some treadmill action and a sauna bath, there were 2 young girls (they were aged about 10-12 years) who were hanging around the cardio section of the gym as they were waiting for their "Shiamak Davar dance classes for young teens" course to begin for the day.

Since the treadmills were all occupied, I was just waiting for one to get free, and so I casually picked up a conversation with these 2 girls. Just to make fun of them, I asked them if they had any friends in the dance class. After they replied "Oh yeah, we've got loooooooots of friends", I simply asked them whether they'd be interested in giving me some of their friends because I didn't have any friends. To that, they promptly refused, but they pointed at the folks on the treadmills and told me that I could have them for friends.

To this, I said they may not want to be my friends, and that if I knew that they were my friend's friends, it would be easier to make friends (ok, I hope that sentence wasn't confusing). For which, the girls nearly floored me with their reply:

Why dont you just ask them? They will become your friends. It is that easy.


For a moment, I didn't know what to say. I didn't have the heart to tell her that once you're all grown up, it isn't as easy making friends.

Or is it?

Will people start wondering what exactly are your intentions? Do you have an ulterior motive for this sudden "request"?

Is "Life" really that complicated?